1: God will never put on you more than you can bear.
Quite a statement and is not in scripture, what the bible says is that God will not let you be TEMPTED beyond what you can bear and will provide you a way out. Being a weak willed man like most of us of the masculine gender often we have not chosen the way out. But back to the main point, Jesus Christ is our burden bearer, long before we were born and grew into adults God has a plan for our lives. Part of that is refining by the refiners fire as spoken of in one of Peter's letters a man whose life and demise mirrored that premise. Peter is one to be greatly admired. All of us except the righteous need the Holy Spirit to strengthen our resolve to be more like Lord Jesus Christ and guide us into wisdom and truth. I ask right now and every day for a fresh infilling of the Blessed Holy Spirit. I need to say that for me believing in a sovereign God but knowing there is a certain amount of free will in His universe Life has put more on me than I could bear. Now the source of that or those burdens is a mystery veiled in God's sovereign control of reality and the allowance of free will spoken of before. Much of what mankind bears comes from satan and his demons and the principalities and powers spoken of in Ephesians. God is a good God and his desire for all of us is the best that life that we can be purposed into for His ultimate goal our eternal reward to be with Him in Glory. That is sometimes a painful thing. As RC Sproul said when God creates evil even that evil is for our good, referring to the story of Joseph . All evil is not good, all things are not good, the scripture says that those things we experience work for our good for those who are called it doesn't say all things are good, just that they work for good. It may have been the death of his son that had a great deal to do with the great faith of Abraham Lincoln and the good that came from that faith. Back to the original thought, Christ is the burden bearer, one day a slobbering me gave over a situation to the Lord that I could not handle. It was a moment of total surrender of that burden to Him, we need Christ in His fullness to address the issues and events of life He wants to become involved in every aspect of our lives He is our Creator Lord by Him and through Him were all things created and much was created for Him by our Eternal and loving Father the Great God Jehovah. We need all aspects of the Triune God working in our lives Father Son and Holy Spirit. It begins with faith in Christ which results in being drawn by God the Father. That's not me that's what the Lord said. We need our Saviour oh how we need our Saviour He gave His life His precious life that we might have life. God knows everything there is nothing, no thing hid from His eyes its all on record and will be played back one day except for the forgiven sin which is as far gone as the East is from the West. Beloved believe on the Lord Jesus Christ that ye may be saved. God bless Agape.